The Cancer Connection

~Shared by Dave Jackson~

When word of my own cancer diagnosis reached Facebook in 2012, Chip was the first to call, seemingly within minutes. At that point we had worked in the same office for three years but I didn’t really know him, other than to say “hi” in passing. We certainly didn’t travel in the same social circles. So I was really surprised — and incredibly honored — that one of the most powerful people in the music business would take the time to call and express concern and support, especially to someone at the opposite end of the spectrum.

And that, as I came to learn, was simply how Chip was.

With neuroendocrine forms of cancer as our common denominator, I suddenly found myself more comfortable talking with him, asking his advice or offering mine. Sometimes we’d talk about cancer, other times about music (though the timing never worked out, he was kind enough to patiently entertain my repeated requests for my then-girlfriend to meet Dave Matthews!) or some other topic. No matter the subject, he was always animated, enthusiastic and, most of all, positive. He showed me that a positive attitude goes further than anything in this world, and he taught me a lot about courage, perseverance and grace under pressure.

He also showed me that people are people, no matter what. It’s not the size of your bank account, house or career that matters … it’s your heart. And his was giant.

I’ve been cancer-free for four years now and I’ll always be grateful to Chip for reaching out to me. It was an honor and privilege to work for him as my boss … and, more importantly, to know him as a person. He was a true gentleman.

Rest in peace, Chip …

Dave

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